Xmas morning was equally nice. I was pleasantly surprised by one or two of my 'Santa' gifts that I'd forgotten about. And it was nice to sit in my pj's with a delicious latte and chat with my absent daughters.
Still, ain't it good to get back to everyday life which for me means rising before 7 am, sitting at work with a good coffee and my usual breakfast oatmeal, chatting with clients and co-workers about the real issues of life while helping them get back on their feet, then a quiet dinner at home, my evening phone calls, and a little Netflix. THAT is my life, not the chaos that can arise from others' lives.
While it is around me and can sometimes touch me, it is NOT me.
Shalom!
8 comments:
a lot of wisdom in this, Sandy....seeking peace is a good thing!
Sounds like a bittersweet experience . . . and aren't those really the best? A happy and calm 2019 to you, Milady!
I think for the post part, a very hygge Christmas! Here's to a wonderful 2019!
We all have to find our own peace and that often means staying away from toxic people. I am glad that your holidays, minus four or five hours, were good for you.
Toxic families, what a pain. I've raised my children very differently and sounds like you have too. Glad you had a good Christmas otherwise.
I wish you a very healthy and peaceful 2019!
I know a thing or 2 (really a thousand) about toxic families....My Mom's family disappeared after her death and my Dad's well, I've always felt like an outsider and I would spend energies trying to fit in but nothing worked. When he passed, none of his cousins bothered to send a note or a text yet I heard they complained that I did not plan a memorial lunch.
and I am afraid I burned the last bridge last night when I refused to give or sell some family furniture to my cousin. My Dad left her some money, I gave her a lot of furniture, paintings, Xmas decor and even loaned her money that she never repaid...so that was it.
I am turning myself towards 2019 , bright eyed and hopeful!
They say that life is what we make it and it sounds like you are doing what is best for you. My home is my peaceful place too and I never mind being home alone. Although I do love my family, It's nice to get home where it is quiet and cozy. Happy New Year, may it be the best ever !
Hi, I popped in to thank you for visiting my blog. Like you I spent Christmas alone (aside from the 'visitor' I wrote about) and after three years without my man I am adjusting to a solo Christmas. I thank God for giving me good neighbours. New Year greetings.
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